Thursday, 8 December 2011

What to do when gothic fashion becomes popular.


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Every 2 years or so while I'm browsing through Vogue I find that "Goth" has entered the fashion world and I've never heard a problem with it previously, it usually gets watered down by high street shops until it's a simple velvet shift dress. Velvet, lace and leather nearly always appear in shops every Winter, again this doesn't affect me although sometimes I cringe at the cheap lace. But one has bothered recently, it's that...hipster Goth look.

At first I admired the minimal look but after several girls in my college started following the trend and making comments about my own outfits I'm starting to resent it. I first observed this style on Tumblr and it's since spread into the street snapping section of magazines and fashion trend blogs. I keep attracting comments about how I dress which infuriates me considering their own style is inspired by my subculture's fashion, they would know that if they wasn't trend hopping bimbos.

And breath *phew*. I hope I'm not being unreasonable and you won't judge me for getting bristly about the subject. I have strangers demanding to know where I got my DARLING VINTAGEY velvet blazer and wrongly thinking we're wearing the same skirt even though mine is handmade. Plus I have this tiny silly fear another Goth will mistake me for one and snub me. Which is ridiculous considering I've never met another Goth on the streets and I would never dress similar to a Hipster Goth.

I'm simply ignoring the issue now, it's not worth shitting bats over for several reasons:
  • Fashion can change in a matter of months, wait a year and you won't see any gawfix trendy people swanning around.
  • It's unlikely you'll meet one that offends you, the one that makes comments about my outfits at college actually only dresses like that once a week and she's easily ignored. 
  • People who follow trends are aware that it won't last forever so they usually choose key pieces and incorporate them into their wardrobe, consequently they don't look like they're trying to be Goth.
  • When shops create their own range they predict trends and use inspiration from designers, it's much more watered down and quite unlike a typical gothic wardrobe.
  • The "Chic Goth" articles are usually quite funny, although sometimes they do offer good advise and point out a new black varnish I haven't tried yet.
  • My silly fear of being mistaken for a trend hopper is an irrational one, they never look entirely comfortable in their outfit and it shows. Besides a lot of trend followers are creative and merely use it as inspiration for their own unique outfits.
 If a well meaning person stops and asks you where you got your jacket from just tell them, or if you can't be bothered just mention a nearby Charity shop and quickly make your escape (lying yes but it helps charity so shush). Sometimes I lie and say I've had it for years just to see the look of surprise on their faces, it's quite funny that they don't realise Goths have being dressing similarly before they was born. If you should find yourself still squirming at the idea of Non-Goths rubbing up against velvet just breathe, and reread the reasons above. Or just cut yourself a piece of cake like I do.

14 comments:

ultimategothguide said...

I love this post SO much, thanks for calming my own irrational fears...

Julietslace said...

You're welcome :3 I'm glad I shared my silly fear!

VictorianKitty (Sophistique Noir) said...

Goth comes and goes in the mainstream... Eventually you get used to it and just roll your eyes and say "Ah, aren't they cute. And they'll all want to look like cheerleaders next month." However, I would still find it upsetting if a "Goth hipster" tried to relate to me in some way, as if we were the same. It happens occasionally in the clubs. I'm always polite, even though sometimes it leaves me seething a bit inside. :) I go to the clubs to get away from trend-followers, not to be hit on by them!!

Your tips are awesome, especially the cake part. :-D

Aristocratic Elegance said...

Usually I don't mind when goth-inspired things show up in more mainstream fashion, since it can make it easier to find some types of clothing, but it would be really annoying to have to deal with people like the girl you mentioned. Ugh.

Maeam said...

I know the feeling. I've only told the truth about where I got my clothes from once and that was because we were in the store I got it from when it happened! The FUNNIEST thing. It's as if no one noticed those armwarmers until I started wearing them...That person was rabid about it, too...shocked the heck out of me...

Kitty Lovett; The Unadulterated Cat said...

Fucking hipsters. >:(

My anti-hipster shield contains: wearing floor-length skirts, corsets and bustles, having a tasteful hat, not having some kind of ridiculous tank-top-and-high-waisted-skirt combo that makes me look pregnant (I don't know why hipsters and hipster goths do this), applying makeup with skill and not being a complete arrogant cockhead towards everyone I meet.

"Oh, my slipknot shirt? Yeah, you wouldn't know them. You're not ~->GOTH LIKE ME<-~"

And yes. That's an actual quote.

Darling Violetta said...

When Goth fashion is popular I haul my lace covered behind down to the nearest store and stock up on basics before it all vanishes. Haha. Other than that I don't waste my time fuming over "hipster goths" or "mallgoths" or whatever comes up. :D

The HouseCat said...

I tend to think being complimented by a hipster is better than insulted by a chav, even if a lot of them are only trend-scavenging. A few of those hipsters are probably decent, if slightly ignorant people, and might mature into someone with their own style. I think they're like the bohemian version of mallgoths, just a bit older. Some of them are going to keep wearing floral skirts and vintage blazers long past when they stop being trendy. My usual answer is either a charity shop or hand-made because my clothes generally ARE from a charity shop, or hand-made/modified from something I bought in a charity shop. That, or once in a rare while, eBay.

lashesandstars said...

Slipknot isn't Goth.

Julietslace said...

Shit really? ;) all these years spent thinking Slipknot is Goth. I'm just kidding and Kitty was too.

Charlotte said...

This is a really inciteful and well written post! Although I'm Vintage rather than Goth, I understand your pain as there's a similar situation as vintage is also being misappropriated by the high street, with people thinking a "50s dress" can have an above-the-knee skirt - infuriating.

xx Charlotte
Tuppence Ha'penny Vintage

Julietslace said...

Thank you! As a lover of vintage I understand that, whenever I see a high street dress being advertised as "vintage" my eyes roll like marbles.

theEmocarebear said...

"their own style is inspired by my subculture's fashion, they would know that if they wasn't trend hopping bimbos"

Yes. Agreed.

Sorel said...

thank you for posting this. i know what you mean, although i mostly just find it ironic because like you said, mostly the 'bimbos' donit know how to pull it off confidently. and the staples are in stock and cheap:P
i've never had to deal with people like that, but it would be a pain.

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